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``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Friday, December 29, 2006
2006 is ending in less then 3 days. Walking in the rain somehow or rather stimulates my thinking. There was no mad rush around me which forced me to walk as fast as I could. Therefore, I took my own sweet time and strolled down the path which led me home.
I was reflecting on how quickly the year has gone by. I decided to pen down my very own Year 2006 Review.
2006 has been good to me. In fact, I can't remember being as happy as I am now in the recent years. With my aunt's messier then messy divorce, 5 year old cousin's death, granddad's passing, the past few years have dampened my family's spirit. It took us some time to find our footing and be strong for each other. I'd say 2006 is where I found my family again. The family that never managed to have gatherings every Sunday, the family that always makes me smile or go crazy. We're not the Brady bunch but seriously, between my mum's siblings there's absolutely no politics.
This year, I grew closer to my family. I was able to have more meaningful conversations with my mum, I also saw my sister laugh more often then before. Maybe all these happened because I have been around home more often then out with my friends. I'm genuinely happy that I have grown closer to some of my cousins and find out more about their lives which I have missed. The best part of having a close-knit family would be that, you know they are always there. *smiles* And that does not mean the situation can be taken advantage of.
Also, I have realised more about the quality of friendships that have come my way. Some friends are here to stay. Then, there are some friends who will be there for a few years before becoming wrapped up with their own lives. This year I found some old friends back, made new ones. Just to name a few would be Yogi, Anu, Vikram, Aruna, Suzanna and Anjalika. Of course, ABY is one of the constant things I simply cannot do without. It's been an eventful year I must say for the threesome. We pull through it together. Each of us providing the best support we can give. Laughter and tears. *hugs* The poly mad bunch who make up my colorful life. The best friend. My secondary school bunch. Varda.
2006 has also proved to be eventful in a sense. I spent 3 months in Shanghai with Yan Jing. Those 3 months were a ride. Full of ups and downs. It made me realize a lot of things which I can't possibly pen down. I am just grateful to have experienced this. No matter how many hurdles I faced physically emotionally and mentally, I will not have traded this experience for an attachment in Singapore. YJ and I both know that right from the beginning it was draining. At some points, we lost hope only to find it later on. Those 3 months are playing in my mind like a film without sound. All that is left are memories.
My cousin finally got hitched in June after 7 years of courtship. As some of my friends would know, this marriage approval did not come easy at all. If it did I think my cousin would have been married with a kid right now. Now I'm just waiting for her traditional wedding ceremonies in January 2007. Another excuse to look pretty.
Relationships wise. There has been a certain someone who has left a lasting impression on me. Finally broke through the barriers I have put most through. He did. I hope he stays. I really hope for that. Most of my friends do not have a clue. Only a handful do. If Ariane knows me well, she knows I don't like answering questions. Neither do I like asking questions. Which is exactly why I have not bothered talking. I prefer it that way too.
2006 has been good to me. In short, an eye-opener. A complete eye opener. The events have influenced my thinking, molded my perceptions and allowed me to be a person who uses both her heart and head to make decisions. It's important to stand firm for what you believe in. However, there's a fine line between being stubborn and standing up for yourself. I, for one, do not wish to make the same mistake.
Now, I wish for 2007 to be an even better year. Go ahead and write your own review. You'd be surprised at how those memories just come rushing back. Bitter or sweet. Everything happens for a reason. Indeed it does.
:)
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Thursday, December 21, 2006
The much awaited Gift exchange arrived. I must say, I was pretty excited and anticipating the Seoul Garden with the Fives. Gifts and my craving satisfied. All in one day, how lucky can I get!!
Almost identical.
The Curly sues!!!
she still amazes me. demure yet completely whacked!!
Heart them!!
I had to "BEG" liana to take a picture with us!! Hmmph. soignfuesneudn.
This itself was the 2nd round with the grilled changed. Ate until I was 'jelak' already.
Cheers.
Im sweet. She's mental. And we're almost twins. Fyi, we both share the same birthday.
See what I mean.
Indulging on ICE-CREAM.
The love-hate relationship with candid shots. Liana manages to capture me at my worst. Always. hehe.
Camwhoring.
How does the day end without a picture being taken in the toilet!!
The Beautiful Swarovski Christmas Tree outside Intercontinental Singapore.
Guess who we bumped into!! XZ and her best friend, Mei Si.
Take 1.
Take 2.
Take 3
Take 4.
The Fives.
Liana went ahead to perform her prayers. Don't feel bad Li. We managed to take picture of the tree alone. We promise to edit it and put you inside alright. Cheer up. Nyah nyah nyah.
That pretty much sums up the afternoon spent with the Fives. We did not manage to take pictures of the gift exchange. Can you blame us, we were simply just too overwhelmed.
Well turns out that Liana picked my name, I picked Yan Jing, Yan Jing picked Ee Lin, Ee Lin picked Ariane and Ariane picked Liana. I absolutely love my gifts. The black clutch with gold embroidery, Esprti tee and the very cute accessories holder.
Thank you for a wonderful afternoon. Many many loves. Looking forward to more such outings even though this marks the last 2 months in poly. You women have been really a great support system throughout this journey.
Another reason why today is wonderful would be that my sister turns 22!!! Her 21st birthday bash still remains so crystal clear in my mind. Pure fun. She's been great. I have no words. I wish her all the best in her final year in NTU and pray that she fulfills her wish to continue with her Masters next year.
KL trip has also been confirmed. I'm leaving this Saturday. Can't wait to see D and his family again!!! I'm really over the moon. I love KL. It's the city that never sleeps. Mindblowing seafood, huge [ and I mean really huge] and lovely mansions, shopping and best of all, family.
So the next time I update would be after I get back from KL. Till then,
A very Merry Christmas to all. Have fun. Don't be stingy with the presents. It's the season of giving with expecting nothing in return. It might cause a very big hole in your pocket, but hey, to see that wide smile on the person you care about..why not?? Tell the loved ones that you love them and are grateful to have them in your life.
*smiles*
Girls, if you want the photos and aren't able to get a hold of Li online, do click on my Yahoo Photo link alright.
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
Somehow or rather, even being almost broke did not dampen my spirits in shopping for x'mas presents this year. The only difference would be that my budget shrank by alot this year. And I mean alot.
I have no qualms about buying gifts for people. Especially if I really like and care for the person. However with the numerous expenses in the past months, saving was practically impossible. How I was wish money just grew on trees. Makes life a whole lot easier doesn't it?
With the limited amount of dinero I had, got a few gifts for the girls and my sister. I had fun picking out gifts. This is the only time I HAVE NO problem of walking from one shop to other. Other times, I hate walking from shop to shop. I also hate it when I am made to do that. So most times, I just wander off on my own. So I do enjoy shopping alone.
I'm looking forward to the lunch date with the girls tomorrow. Seoul Garden!! Like finally. After months of waiting, I can finally have my korean table bbq.
KL trip is confirmed for Saturday. I hope my dad does not make a 360 degree turn around and say no at the eleventh hour. I am really looking forward to KL. I started 2006 at Bangsar, KL and definitely have to end it there too.
So now, I am feeling lazy to update further. I really am going to die of sloth one of these days. Hai.
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Saturday, December 16, 2006
Finally jumped on the 19 bandwagon.
I hope you have a marvellous time today, and I REALLY HOPE you did not head to the gym. Bleah. Enjoy yourself dude.
Not in the gym.
Haha. Anyways, I thank you for being a great friend. The friendship we share was not at all expected. Don't you think so?? Even now, sometimes people are surprised that a CDS classmate can really become such a good friend and confidante.
You deserve all the happiness you can get. You are really one of the nicest guys I know. AND I'm not saying this because it's your birthday today. I truly mean it.
Take care pal.
*hugs*
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Thursday, December 14, 2006
I've been gone for quite awhile. Don't blame me. Apart from all the exciting and wonderful things that have happened this past 1 half weeks, I was just plain lazy to even update my blog at all. Just a few minutes ago, I was contemplating on whether or not to update. Then I remembered Eel's voice when I mentioned I have to update. "FINALLY!" LOL.
Since the 5th Dec till 11 Dec, my house was ambushed by the people from KL whom I adore so much. It was totally a surprise.
As some of my friends know, my brother took a flight down to Kuala Lumpur to spend the week with D and his family. He was supposed to back on the 6th Dec and I had a surprise for him. A very brand new XBOX 360.
I have to admit though, my fatty brother upped me this one time. A few days before the 5th, D and my brother were constantly bugging me about my plans for the upcoming week. Being the typical Singaporean Nerd, I mentioned school and upcoming term tests. At the back of my mind, I knew something was up. I just brushed those suspicions away because they seemed too good to be true.
I even mentioned to Eel, YJ and Liana about my hunch that those 2 are planning something. Like perhaps, come to Singapore??
Then on the 5th itself, D called me up while I was having a project discussion with Yan Jing.
D: "B, I'm having dinner with a few friends tonight. So I might not call you alright. What time are you heading home anyways?"
Me: "errrm, think should be done by 5 plus 6. If I can get home early, I will. Then we can chat online awhile"
My discussion with YJ finished earlier then expected. I went home. Switched on the webcam. D was not online. Neither was my brother. So I went ahead to sleep.
Around 530, the doorbell rang. My sister went downstairs to answer the door.
"OH MY GOD!!" *Laughter follows*
I sprang up from my bed and ran downstairs just to see the 3 bafoons standing at my doorstep.
Danesh, sukesh and my brother, Ram.
"What the hell!!!" I ran up to my room and quickly text-ed Ariane and Latha in complete excitement.
Even my mum was laughing so hard. This was indeed a surprise. I had this nagging feeling that they were coming but when it happened, it WAS REALLY A SURPRISE!!
D's parents came down on Saturday and left on the 11th. That meant a total of 11 people camping over at my place. Madness well-defined.
The 6 days spent with them was amazing. I had such a good time. Wonderful. All those orchard road outings, funan centre, city hall, East coast park, flying the helipcopter that made D so excited and best of all, just all of us sitting down in my room chilling out.
I love D's family to bits. Saty Aunty is really one of the nicest person I know. D was a certified joker the entire time. Forever up to mischief, disturbing my mum, biting everyone, cracking really funny jokes. He's damn funny I tell you.
It was really tiring as well because my midterms were due the following week, and all plans to study were stalled. Therefore, I slept around 3 am almost everyday just to wake up at 8 am. I got revision done while everyone else was asleep.
No regrets there. I enjoyed the company. The best I had in months. Family bonding sessions are still the best. I have my close friends. I have an even closer family. I'm blessed. :)
Even being broke did not dampen my spirits one bit. Thank you D, you made my day(s). Like always.
So yesterday marked the last time I sat for an exam in Temasek Polytechnic. Technically, I'm having my term break. BUT, here in SG...holidays are NEVER holidays. So which means, getting started on projects. Anticipating the Seoul Garden lunch date cum gift-exchange with the girls.
On a sad note, I miss D and his family so much. The house is so quiet and feels so lifeless. Even a noisy me can't perk it up in anyway. Sad, no? Plans to spend Christmas in Malacca with D's family are at hand. I'm 100% looking forward to it. New Year 2006 was in KL, now Christmas 2006 might be in Malacca.
So fun.
Danesh, Saty Aunty N Sukesh
D
I love my mum!! He dares bite her!!
D's obsession with RC choppers. Made him so excited and impatient.
Sukesh N Ram
I love his expression!!
Love them. Period.
Trying to be all cool and macho. That's D!!
:)
We loveeee SUKI!!!
He never leaves my sister in peace!! He threatened to bite her if she does not feed him!!
Darsh, Mumz, Sis and Aunty
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Saturday, December 02, 2006
I'm almost broke again. I have to pay my handphone bill this month. Since I'm working, I've finally decided to pay for the bills by taking over my lovely sister who has been dutifully paying the M1 bill since 2003.
Money woes.
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Friday, December 01, 2006
I LOVED DHOOM 2~~~~!!!!
Hrithik was super duper deliciously hottttt.
The moment he flew off the plane in the opening scene, I started smiling!!! *haiiiiii* How can someone be so hot!! No fair. Those muscles, toned abs, six-pack, features to die for and his infamous dancing, he really has no bones. Ok, I should stop here.
I'm in the Hrithik dilemma nowwww.
Hrithik and Ash make a smoking hot pair. Sizzling together. I mean that.
Liana and I enjoyed the movie. We were going..."So handsome...haiii"
I really think I should stop now. If I banged my head for Abhishek, I'm going to hyper-ventilate because of Hrithik.
Abhishek I still love though I wish he was given more scope. Bipasha as sexy as expected. Uday was a barrel of laughs.
For all characters, they did not have much scope. All they had to do was to look good. HELL yeah, droolworthy. Ash suited the sexy vixen look with bare mid-riffs, hot pants and boots. I loved her hair as well. The golden brown tan suited her damn good yarr.
The gadgets were out of this world, the bike chase scene as well as the stunning roller-blade escape route as well.
Bring on Dhoom 3!! This time with some cars please. Ferrari, Bugattis, Aston Martins!!
*Dhoom 2*
*see what i mean*
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``
Wednesday, November 29, 2006
I saw PELE!! And he was just an arm's length away from Yan Jing and myself.
Oh my!! I was really excited. Beaming all the way. I have Yogi to thank for!!
Being the official for the event, he managed to smuggle Yan Jing and I to the holding room where Pele met with the school officials. It was so cool. While everyone else was above on the stands waiting for him to come out, the soccer legend himself was right infront of me.
Yogi, YOU ROCK!!!
This stupid Vikram showing off that he and his pals were Pele's escorts for the day. Grr. Doesn't matter bro, I managed to see him!!
Sadish was so jealous that his msn nick was "I HATE SOBANA!!!"
Haha. Too bad so sad.
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JUDGING'S OVER!!!
*runs, jumps and does a cartwheel*
I swear I really want to jump in joy when the both of us came out of the presentation room. But, I was already getting a blistered feet with all the running from Engineering school to Library to Design School to ITAS canteen and back to Engineering school. One reason why I love my birks and dislike heels.
It is really a huge load of my shoulders. I know this does not mean the end of everything. However, I welcome the much awaited liberation since June this year. It's been a physically draining, mentally challenging and emotionally wrecking experience. Constant fears faced.
We never had it fine and dandy. I guess all that stressing did pay off. For me, nothing is worse then our efforts not being paid off. Especially when it comes to school.
Now all I need to complete for the week would be the MP Report Writing 1 which is more then half-finished.
Now, I can concentrate on getting my life back. The friends whom I have not been able to spend much time with as well as D who has been bearing my constant according to him
"b, you're-stressing-for-no-reason" mode.
Ok, definitely need to catch up with Woman. Have not been able to chat with her much with our crazy schedules. Yao, for that matter too. Shalu, Latha and the rest. Laugh more with Eel and Li, those whackos who I love. And of course, must meet up with the nonsensical Sadish as well.
Alright, here's to a happier me.
LOL.
``[ read my life like a fortune told ]``